Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Bad News

I know this is supposed to be primarily a running blog and lately there hasn't been a whole lot of running talk happening thanks to this sickness that won't end.  I tend to find away around the running talk by having the blog also titled "and some sauce on top" which refers to all the other stuff in life, usually "good stuff - sauce on top".   Monday afternoon on my way out the door to go to the airport I received some "bad stuff" news.  I want to put out here because honestly I don't know how else do deal and it will help explain my stressed out kind of life the next xxx months.  

My dad has been diagnosed with Non-Hodgkin's lymphoma.  We don't know what stage yet as he has a few more tests to undergo and another meeting with the Cleveland Clinic oncologists on Tuesday after the holiday.  The news comes right at a time in which his wife (my step mom) is in breast cancer remission but still undergoing reconstruction surgeries as well as follow up care treatment.  At least he has someone in his life who has been there once the chemo treatments start.  

It's going to be difficult.  It already is difficult.  He's the one parent my sis and I have.  I live 6 hours away and travel for my job so going home to spend time with my dad and help out only throws a wrench into the whole situation.  I know I'll make it work but it's a lot to handle right now.  If you can send positive thoughts my dads way.  Every little bit helps right now.  

19 comments:

Trophy Wife said...

I'm so sorry honey! I'll be praying for him, and you.

MCM Mama said...

Oh Jamie, I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. I'll definitely be sending prayers and positive thoughts your way. Not sure if there is anything I could do to help, but if you ever need anything, don't hesitate to ask.

Cal said...

Keep your head up and you'll be fine! I really truly hope everything goes well, you and your dad are fantastic people. Our thoughts are with you!

carpeviam said...

I am SO sorry. You are certainly in my thoughts. Use your blog as a place to vent. We're here to support you.

Anonymous said...

I'll be keeping you and your family especially your dad in my thoughts and prayers.

Jeri said...

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayer!!

kilax said...

I am so sorry to hear the news! I am sending positive vibes your way. Your family will get through this, together.

Aron said...

I am so sorry girlie... lots of thoughts and prayers are being sent your way. (((hugs)))

Anonymous said...

Good thoughts sent!

Chris said...

Oh no. I'm sorry. I'll definitely keep your father [and you, and all who love him] in my thoughts and prayers.

Mark said...

Jamie, I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.

The Laminator said...

Oh Jamie...that's really bummer news. I'm so sorry about the bad news. Definitely will be sending healing thoughts to you and your dad. Keep us updated! Best wishes for a speedy recovery for your family!

runner26 said...

I'm so sorry to hear this! I will certainly keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

J said...

So sorry to hear about all that...you will be in my thoughts and prayers that things go well for your familiy.

ps. got your comment on my shoes. The shoes that I am currently having trouble with are the ones I actually bought and had fitted at a running store. very weird!

Kelly said...

positive thoughts!

Marlene said...

I'm so sorry about this news. :( Sending good vibes and keeping you and your family in my thoughts during this difficult time.

Jess said...

Jamie I'm so sorry to hear about your dad! Sending lots of thoughts and prayers in your direction!

kristen said...

I'm so sorry to hear about this. I will be thinking lots of positive thoughts.

Michelle said...

Jamie you bet I will send positive healing thoughts to your dad!!

Keep up with the running - it helps with the stressful stuff!!!

I am here for you!!